How do I become self reliant and stop allowing my happiness to only come from certain people? For example if a certain person doesn't text me one day, my whole day and mood is ruined...

I’d say the most important thing is to expect less from others.  Keeping this in mind, will keep you from getting your hopes up. When you have low expectations of people, then it’s easier for them to meet those expectations.

 At the end of the day, the only person you really have is yourself. People tend to be selfish and we put ourselves first so that we may be happy. Put your own happiness above anything else. Learn what truly makes you happy, and allow that to motivate you.

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